Today I got my first rejection letter from an agent. Rejection is prevalent in publishing. But should we as writers expect it? No. In researching the publishing industry the one thing that is common is no one knows what makes a book a bestseller. If the author is already successful, one who's had traction from prior books, a fan following, then, yes, it's one indication that the next book will be a bestseller. Other than that, what makes a bestseller is a mystery. So when an industry professional says anything negative about your work, what should you do? See if the judgment has any validity. If not, ignore it.
For those of us who love gorgeous women, Catherine Bell is a successful actress. She's been in hit TV shows such as JAG and Army Wives. A long time ago I saw an interview of hers, and the interviewer asked her if she had taken acting lessons. She said yes, and then went on to say that one of her well known instructors told her that she'd never make it and couldn't act. Look at her filmography and tell me if she's successful or not.
Around the same time, I watched a special on George Lucas. In it, either him or one of his classmates talked about one of their film instructors. The instructor said, paraphrasing here, there was no future in film making, and they should all drop out. What?
Not only that, but when he was making Star Wars, most of the English cast stated how ridiculous this movie was. How it would never succeed. That must have affected Lucas because he thought his movie was going to flop. History tells otherwise.
One thing I've found with all successful people is they pursue their dream, their truth. To me success is not only financial abundance, but spiritual and mental happiness. Without happiness, what I believe to be the meaning of life, what good does money do? Cause you can't buy happiness. The credit industry is proof of that.
The question becomes how far should we persevere to fulfill our dreams? Or is there an end?