One of my favorite things to do is read people. I used to think that I had to be present, to be there next to the person, to feel their eyes. And I don't mean getting my grubby hands on people's corneas. To be there wasn't necessary. But as instant messaging becomes a tool in corporations, it becomes a tool for me, and anyones else, to learn to read people through their IM. People IM they way they talk. Which is fine! But it's funny when people type "Uh..." And they do type the ... after the Uh. Like they want you to know they're thinking. I've also seen my questions answered first with "er".
Or what about the "Let me think about that." Why not just think about it, then respond once you've pondered, surmised, and worked through?
I also love the "Hmmm." I love it cause I do that when I don't know how to respond. Gives me time to think without typing let me think.
So what's the point?
One thing that is true in our world, in our universe, is we're all connected. It's the reason I can read people when they're in my presence or not (something anyone can do). There is an energy like the force in Star Wars that connects us all, connects us to the environment we live in. We think of ourselves as separate beings, when we are really a single entity. It's the reason why when a person hurts someone, they in turn hurt themselves. When people come back from war they're forever changed and suffer from post traumatic stress disorder. The death they see, the death they cause rips their souls.
Remember Harry Potter? How Voldemort wanted to rip his soul into pieces by killing others? There is truth in that.
I've had to think this about a lot. The main character deals with this not only within himself, but with the families that are opposed to the erupting war. A war that he's partly responsible.
And of course this idea doesn't just apply to death. This applies to hurting someone emotionally. I can't tell you how many times I've argued with my mom and felt guilty about it afterward. Or the number of times I've fallen into severe arguments with my ex-girlfriends and felt horrible. In the end, no one wins a fight. Both sides are hurt, exhausted, and don't want to connect with each other.
Is it better to be right, or to be happy? Because isn't the meaning of life happiness?